Every year, on December 31st, my husband and I decide what the following year will be named. For instance, the year after our wedding was “The year of recovery”. Meaning, we need to recover financially and mentally! Another year was “The year of health”. We don’t set New Years resolutions because it’s rare that people stick to them. We find that naming the year has a bigger impact on us and makes more sense for us.
Since we had a crazy New Years Eve this year, it was hard finding time to sit down and talk about 2016’s name. Just kidding. We actually had all the time in the world. We stayed home with our boys and celebrated the new year with the east coast then went to bed. We did wake up at midnight (CST) because our neighbors set off some fireworks (we totally would have stayed up to watch them if we had known they were going to set them off!) so that counts right?!
So we put together the things we want to do this coming year but didn’t have a name for 2016. Then, after a good nights rest, I got to thinking… Everything we talked about (for the most part) is something Big Bro can relate to. He’s 2 years old so let’s name it “The year of the 2 year old”, so we can cover everything in one title!
What was on our list? Here’s a few…
1. Lying. Plain and simple. Don’t do it. It doesn’t pertain to Michael and I lying to each other. We have nothing to lie about when it comes to each other. We just want the truth from everyone. So many times,someone tells you something and you both know it’s a lie but you both go along with it and it happens over and over again. Just be truthful!
2 year olds… don’t quite know how to lie yet. It’s great! I can ask Big Bro why Little Bro is crying and he will tell me he hit him. Easy. Done. No lying needed!
2. Be more active. Not just with working out but with the boys. This one pertains more to me because I am with the boys most of the day. I find myself in ruts sometimes because I do the same thing over and over and over. A simple thing like going grocery shopping to break up my day works wonders on my mental state! Big Bro will be getting more involved in things this spring so that should help too.
2 year olds… never. stop. moving. I’m not saying I want to be moving constantly but if I could steal some of his energy and use it to have a second dance party at the end of our day, I’d be happy!
3. Be more unpredictable. This sort of goes along with being more active. Do spur of the moment day trips. Do things we wouldn’t normally do. You never know where life will take you…
2 year olds… the definition of unpredictable!
4. Hang out with friends more. We realized that we don’t really try hard enough (or at all) to see our friends. Our kids keep us busy but most of our friends have kids so why are birthday parties the only time we see them?! So if you’re one of our friends here in WI, expect a text or call from one of us! My husband is off to a great start with this one as he is out with friends right now, hence the free time to blog!
2 year olds… LOVE hanging out with their friends. Big Bro likes us to tell him stories before bed but the catch is he tells us who’s in the story. Normally goes like this… “Santa (I’m sure Santa will phase out), Logan, Mommy, Daddy, Anderson, Gracey, Sammy, Nolan, Auntie Katie, Uncle Tommy, GG, Papa, Malachi, Walker, Finn, his Mommy (sorry Kim!) and ALLLLLL my cousins and friends and all the cars…” The excitement on his face whenever I tell him that someone is coming over to play is beyond amazing!
If you try to put yourself in a 2 year olds shoes, they live a pretty amazing life! Before 2 years old, you have the frustrations of not being able to communicate that well. After 2, you start school and it goes downhill from there. No. Not really. But life truly begins and you start to have real life problems. Even if your problem is as small as the boy in your class told you that he didn’t like the color of your pencil.
So here’s to being a 2 year old in 2016!
And I’ll leave you with some holiday photos…
He was so excited about riding the tractor. Grampa that is… These are the boys’ “Find Me Santa” snowflakes so Santa can find them even if they’re in Ohio!
Took a dance class from my bestie (Little Bro’s Godmommy) while we were both in Ohio visiting for Christmas. Felt so good to dance again! My other bestie snapped this photo of me while we were warming up. Not going to lie, I’m proud that I still have my splits!
Moments like these, I cherish! My arms were really sore from the dance class I took and Little Bro finds comfort in holding someone’s hand while in the car. Big Bro stepped up and helped me out by holding his hand ❤️❤️
Big Bro went from a crib mattress to a full…
Can’t even believe it. Growing way too fast for my liking!
And our last family photo of 2015…
Merry Christmas and a happy new year to each and every one of you!!